Welcome! This is written for our children (with a long trip down memory lane), but we're glad you stopped by! We hope some of our adventures will inspire you, and perhaps some of the things we've learned will help you along your way. So - with some laughter (from a disinherited daughter ☺) at the idea that mom might be able to doing more on the internet than check her email - here we go!

Wednesday, October 30, 2013

Haiti - Changing Lives

Haiti October 2013

There are very few experiences in life that are truly life altering.  Marriage is one of those as are any children you raise and perhaps the untimely death of a loved one. But outside of those the universal examples begin to dwindle.  We live our live inside our protective shells, inside our comfortable ideas of what the world is like and what it should be until some chance circumstance or a choice we make rattles our life in such a way that we can never see the world the same way again.  For me a birthday present from my wife was the catalyst. 

While working with Poured Out during the Moore, Oklahoma teornado recovery, Dana began to consider giving me a trip to Haiti with Poured Out.  She knows I love to help people truly in need, and the trip was a God sent idea.  The Haiti tab in this blog has the story of my jorney to Haiti to serve one of the poorest nations on earth.  The person that returned from that trip is not the same person who left. 

Read about the trip here.


Thursday, August 22, 2013

Farewell, Oklahoma

The last few weeks of our deployment were too busy to do much more than catch a breath now and then.  Most of the relief agencies were gone, the city had set a deadline to end free pick-up of debris, and those who had put off (for whatever reason) dealing with things were desperately calling for last minute help.  We were glad to be there for them.

One of the last things Poured Out did was to host a homeowners' party.  We went through the records and called everyone we had a work order for, inviting them for a night of food, fellowship with old neighbors, donation handouts, and our chance to say goodbye and thank you for allowing us to serve them.  It was a fantastic evening!  It was good to see people reconnect - many had not seen or talked to their neighbors since the storms, or in the immediate days after while everyone was trying to recover a few personal belongings.  There was plenty of food for everyone (thanks in part to a grill donated by Lowe's!) and Braum's ice cream to top it all off! (Again, thanks to Braum's for their generous donation - just because a manager recognized us from work in her neighborhood.)  A Wisconsin church group brought gift cards to hand out, and everyone went home with a car packed with donations ranging from toilet paper and pet supplies to food, linens and homemade blankets.

 A chance to visit...

 stock up on supplies....

share a meal.... 

and receive some gift cards. 

Thanks, Convergint, for all your help!!

It was exciting to see how many had already bought and settled in new homes, or were working with contractors, ready to start new construction on their cleared lots.  We were blessed to have been a part of that!

After the homeowners' party it was time to start packing out.  Cots and mats had to be cleaned and boxed up, projects finished, and the church building that we had been using for a dorm and cafeteria was scrubbed up.  We cleaned carpets, pews, furniture and classrooms, packed up office supplies and equipment, and restored order to the building that had served as home for three months.  Outside the big tent was cleared out and taken down, the tools, supplies and trucks were all put in order, ready for the trip back to Michigan.


After one last round of goodbye hugs with our new Oklahoma family, the last four vehicles pulled out about 6:00 p.m. Saturday night, August 17.  We made it as far as Joplin's Flying J, and pulled off for the night.  We were just a couple of hours out from Lebanon, and made it in to church there in time to surprise Dad and Mom.  They took us out for lunch, and then we went to their house and slept the afternoon away!  We spent a couple of days with them, then headed north.

And now, we're back at the house, which hasn't suffered too much from sitting empty all summer (well, except for all the weeds in the back - yikes!  The young boy who was so eager to mow the year before while saving money for a car now had that car, and wasn't too interested in mowing anymore, but his grandmother and another neighbor took care of the basics for us.)  Unfortunately, the house still hasn't sold, so we have to decide our next move with it.

But not until we've spoiled the grands some!. ;)


Sunday, July 28, 2013

A Day in the Life of a Volunteer....

So what exactly are we doing all this time in Moore?  Well, here's a sample....

Basically, I (Dana) work in the office with Sandra, another long term volunteer.  We coordinate the calendar with Carlee (back in the home office in Michigan, when she isn't in Haiti), keep expenses straight (well, when we can gather up the receipts from the guys), interact with the homeowners as needed, greet new volunteers and explain the routine, and try to keep things scheduled and running as smoothly as possible.  

Kent's jobs are more varied.  He might be at City Hall getting permits, or picking up supplies at FEMA, or leading a crew out in the field, usually cutting down trees or picking up rocks and raking lots.  Since he's an early riser, he often sticks breakfast in the oven to heat up for the morning (the ladies have everything prepared, and bribe him with coffee!)  

So what do the regular volunteers do?  Basically, whatever is asked!  In Moore, it might be looking for personal items in a home before it's demolished, pulling out wires and metals to recycle, carrying trash to the curb and sorting it into appropriate piles, picking up cement chunks after a slab has been removed, or raking out a lot smoothly to ready it for new construction.  They might cut down trees, put up tarps, clean up mold, paint, or lay flooring.  (As a general rule, Poured Out leaves rebuilding to the local economy, but there were a couple of exceptions made to that in Moore in special situations.)  A volunteer might stay back and help clean up the church (someone has to do it!) or help with the donations that come in.  

Many people ask how they can help in disaster relief.  First, understand you don't have to be there in the first few days.  In fact, authorities usually don't want you there that fast!  They need time to get security and health protections established and recovery processes functioning.  There will be plenty for you to do in the following weeks.  

Find an organization to work through.  Don't just show up not knowing who you will be working with.  You probably will have trouble finding a place to stay, and are likely to get in trouble if you are out in the field, even with the best intentions, without some official sponsorship.  There are dozens and dozens of volunteer relief organizations that respond to disaster areas.  Most everyone is familiar with Samaritan's Purse, but there are many others that work in similar fashion.  Contact one of them to see how you can help.

Understand that most organizations won't let kids under 14 in the field (and that age needs a parent beside them.)  Please respect this.  It's a safety and liability issue.  We all want to encourage humanitarian endeavors with our children, but there's a time and place and generally disaster clean-up isn't it.  Additionally, often having children in the field actually slows up the process, and sometimes speed (before the next rain/storm begins) is needed.  

Be prepared to do whatever is needed, even if it doesn't seem like it would be directly helpful. There are reasons for how things have to be done; unfortunately, there's not always time to stop and explain those reasons.  Trust your leaders, and ask questions at more convenient times.  If you don't like the answers, find a different organization to work with.  

Expect to have to replace or repair a tire (or two).  And if you don't - lucky!

Know that you might have to pay your way with an organization.  With Poured Out it's $25/day/person. For that you get two meals, a cot or mat to sleep on in dormitory style surroundings with total strangers, and a shower - probably cold.  Actually here, $10 goes directly to the church to offset utility and wear and tear expenses, while the rest is used for food and supplies.

Donations - the best, easiest, quickest solution is money.  But a word of caution on monetary donations - check out the agency first.  Too often a large percentage of your money goes for business expenses, not victim relief.  (Full disclosure - no one in Poured Out receives a salary - all donations go to disaster relief.  The full time staff all raise their own missionary support.)  A good alternative is a gift card. Yes, paper towels, gloves and cleaning supplies ARE always needed, but perhaps what this person needs most is his/her blood pressure medicine refilled or their tools replaced so they can resume work.  A gift card will help with that where you couldn't, and you know it gets into a family's hands.

In Moore a typical day would look like this,,,
5:45ish  Someone plugs in the coffee and puts the morning breakfast in the oven
6:30 Dorm lights come on - there are only 3 bathrooms so the rush and line ups begin
7:00 or 7:15 Breakfast
7:45ish Morning group devotions followed by daily work team division and assignments
8:00ish  Load tools and teams and go to the assigned work site
During the work day people take breaks and eat lunch at their convenience.  If necessary because of weather or health issues people may return to the church.
5:00 (could be earlier or much later) pick up tools and clean up to return to church; hit the shower trailer!
6:30 ish Supper and review of the day
7:30ish Tool and equipment repair and prep - free time to get to know others and share experiences
9:00 Steve's movie of the night
Whenever you are tired - bed

Every day a couple of people stayed back to help with cleaning the building.  Additionally, there were some extra tasks on Saturday to prepare for evening church and church Sunday morning.

They key to a satisfying volunteer experience is to come expecting to help with whatever tasks the leaders have for you.  If you come with a list of things YOU want to accomplish you probably will go away disappointed.   If you come with an open heart to be helpful you will find those opportunities abundant.

If you have interest or questions about helping with a disaster response, feel free to contact Kent or Dana for more information.  

Monday, July 8, 2013

Pictures from Moore

Pictures can't start to do justice to the tragedy left behind from devastating storms and natural disasters, whether tornadoes, hurricanes, floods, wildfires, earthquakes, tsunamis.... They can only begin to catch the physical loss, but can never express the emotional toll.  I'm not going to try to compete with the media and all the pictures available online, but I will share a few of the hundreds we took.












We have worked here for just over a month now, and almost across the board, the last picture captures the spirit and determination of the people of Moore.  A few have decided to leave, but most have sorted through the rubble and are hard at work rebuilding their homes and lives.  We are blessed daily by the residents we meet and are privileged to get to know.  Moore Strong!


Sunday, June 9, 2013

Moore OK

We arrived in Moore on Thursday, June 6.  Our church (Heritage, Rock Island, IL) was sending a semi load of supplies and wanted us to help coordinate the delivery on the ground in Moore, so while they were gathering supplies we had a little extra time to prepare and travel.  We stopped for a night in Lebanon to visit Dad and Mom, and then headed on the next day.  Our dear friends, the Ticknor's, had already arrived in Moore and had secured a place for us at Surburban Baptist Church where they were staying and working (they could only do this because we are "little", only needing one parking place.  On Friday we scouted the location for delivery and storage of the items coming from our home church, due in the next day. (The supplies were for Poured Out, a disaster relief organization from Michigan, headquartering out of May Avenue Wesleyan Church, in OKC., but were being stored off-site at a storage facility.)  

After visiting May Avenue church Friday morning and making sure everything was ready for delivery, we stopped at the church hosting the relief agency we were signed up to work through.  They told us we weren't needed!  Try back next week!  We had gotten approval from them before leaving home, so this was a surprise to us.  (They just had so many volunteers they really didn't need more just then.)  So we went back and cleaned out a storage shed at May Avenue.

Saturday morning the semi was scheduled to be unloaded at 9:00.  We got there half an hour early to make sure all was ready, only to find that the truck was almost half unloaded already!  And we met Steve Adams, co-founder of Poured Out.  After chatting with him awhile, he convinced us to move over to May Avenue and work with Poured Out for the summer!  So looks like tomorrow will be moving day.  We will miss being close to Ticknor's, but we will have electricity - which with temps already in the 90's, will save our generator a lot of hard use.  
The skid loader and shrink-wrapped pallets made the unloading so much easier!

 Loading much needed supplies to take to the church to use for 
volunteers, distribute to needy families, and use in the field

 The city of Moore donated storage space until supplies 
were needed; they were all gone within a week.

 The unloading crew

Saturday afternoon, Vaughn and Jake took us out to see some of the devastation.  Pictures can't start to show all the damage, and some times you simply forget to take pictures as you look at all the horror around you.  How the death toll was not much higher is simply a miracle.  See a later post for pictures.

This afternoon, after church, we visited the Oklahoma City National Memorial, site of the Murrah Building bombing in 1995.  The Ticknor's have made us honorary grandparents (a most delightful job!) and included us in their outing.  The memorial is a lovely tribute to those lost the day of the attack.  The Gates of Time are separated by a reflecting pool, and there are 168 empty chairs on the side remembering the victims.  Especially heartbreaking are the 19 smaller chairs for the children killed.  As we gathered by the Survivor Tree, the Ranger explained how the tree was almost dead, and investigators wanted to cut it down to search for blast evidence, but it was spared and began blooming again, and still thrives today.  



So, it is Oklahoma - and what do you do after church Sunday night in Oklahoma??  Some people go out for ice cream.  But not our guys!  

For now, it's time to secure for travel, and get some sleep, 'cause tomorrow is moving day!  (But only a few miles.)

Monday, May 20, 2013

Oklahoma tornadoes

The Weather Channel ended our indecisiveness over summer travel locations with news reports of the second set of EF-4 and EF-5 tornadoes to hit Oklahoma in two days.  Having done clean-up work before post-Katrina and in Joplin, we both knew we wanted to go help out in Moore, so we got our paperwork sent in online and started readying the RV.

We don't know when exactly we will be leaving, but we will be going within a couple of weeks.  Our son is moving into an apartment with some other guys, so the house will be empty, and all he will have to do is stop over and mow every week.  No worries about pipes freezing in the summer or making sure the snowblower will start!




Friday, May 3, 2013

Wintering in Illinois

A combination of events conspired to keep us off the road Jan-May, 2013.  Primarily, our caretakers had moved out, and leaving a 4800 sq. ft. house empty all winter in northern IL isn't a good idea.  (We can't find a buyer for it!)  Second, our youngest was taking classes at the community college (and no, leaving a 19-year-old boy in charge of the house wasn't an option LOL), and we wanted to encourage him in his schooling.  Third, we each had medical issues (nothing serious, just needed time to take care of) to resolve. After having to come back early both of the last two winters, it was with great reluctance (read that disappointment) that we winterized the RV and hunkered down for the duration.

We took advantage of the time to haul out all of our totes and boxes full of pictures and scan them into the computer.  We saved a small photo box of pictures and mementos for each family member, and (GULP!) threw out the rest of the print copies, after making numerous backup DVD copies!  It was a gruelling project, but felt so good to accomplish!  We also organized the digital pictures already on the computer. We had over 130,000 pictures that we labeled with dates and locations and tagged each person for future reference.  What a job!!

We  wrote up a timeline of travel and major life events from 1981 (marriage) till present day.  (You can see that in the LIFE BEFORE BLOGS tab) and started archiving stories in the blog back from 1980 (yeah, that one will be awhile getting caught up!)  Hopefully, we will end up with a fairly complete journal of life and travels to give our children.  We also got some serious genealogy work done on Kent's family tree (I have worked on mine since the 90's, but there are always more discoveries to make.)

And we downloaded all the songs we wanted from our CDs onto the computer (and extra hard drives), and cleaned up boxes of those. (Anyone remember Spanky and Our Gang?  Well, Kent does, and wouldn't let me just pitch those!)  We wanted to do something with DVDs too, but never decided what.

Our winter entertainment

And now it's spring - at least on the calendar.  Mother Nature is not wanting to let go of winter, but we are more than ready to make some travel plans and get on the road!  For now, our 32nd anniversary is coming up..... hmmm, what to do??